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But Peter, everyone has to go through this stage of their lives to get to the next one, don't they? It doesn't matter what their sexual orientation...

I read just as 'outrageous' tales in the blogs of younger straight people.

I've struggled with this one a lot, and decided that, at the end of the day, a person is a person. It may sound weird to you, but almost the last thing I think about when I meet someone new is a person's gender or sexuality.

Yes, their life, experiences and beliefs may be different to mine at this point in time but why can't we explore and celebrate the differences? Learn from each other?

In 10 years time they, and I, will surely be at different life stages again.

[Wed 18 Jun 09:22 BST] Blue Witch
I'm sure I just read this comment somewhere else! Are you doing job-lots? :)
[Wed 18 Jun 09:27 BST] Peter
i think we all know what makes a man a man. genitalia.
theres no such thing as a 'pretendy' man (except maybe a drag king). as for 'real' men, well, what the fuck are they? everyones idea of realness is different. a man who does a manual job, has muck under his nails, drinks pints in straight pubs and is mildly tolerant of the odd drunken old queen (i'm naming no-one to protect the innocent) is no more a real man that the honest, out of the closet, screaming queen, mincing round town with an expensive haircut and a tight lycra t-shirt. in fact, imho, the mincing queen wins hands-down in the 'realness' stakes.
but if we're talking about which one we want to have sex with then i think most homo's would want to add a little bit more 'muck' to the labourers finger nails (and then go out for a drink and a good laugh with the mincing queen).
i'll shut up now. good debate though.

[Wed 18 Jun 10:13 BST] dave
bitch :)
[Wed 18 Jun 10:18 BST] Peter
council bitch
[Wed 18 Jun 10:28 BST] Peter
LOL!
[Wed 18 Jun 11:16 BST] dave
Am I right to suppose that the "real man" thing was supposed to be insulting to gay men? I'm struggling to understand how your entry could be seen as ofensive.
Perhaps I'm just too dim-witted, which wouldn't surprise me in the least.

[Wed 18 Jun 12:33 BST] erik
Not dim-witted at all, erik. These are treacherous waters - which I keep coming back to again and again. You would see more of the debate in the comment boxes of My Ace Life
[Wed 18 Jun 12:50 BST] Peter
Oh. I knew I'd missed something here.
[Wed 18 Jun 12:55 BST] erik
Hey - don't go casting aspertions - my comment boxes are all about misery and depression (my opinion on depression: God's way of telling you to enjoy "Come Dancing").

Masculinity is an argument. It's a social construct, and has nothing to do with whether you're a man or not. Oh, I've come over all Cindy Sherman.

[Fri 20 Jun 09:17 BST] Steve
And anything with Anne Robinson.

Who is Cindy Sherman? I've heard of Sindy doll.

[Fri 20 Jun 09:24 BST] Peter
Finally my mickey mouse degree comes in handy...

Cindy Sherman - all the rage with fine art undergrads. (I hope your comment box does hyperlinks - if not: http://www.artcyclopedia.com/artists/sherman_cindy.html )

[Fri 20 Jun 11:02 BST] Steve
Born 1954! That makes her about the same age as Sindy.
[Fri 20 Jun 11:32 BST] Peter
Were you at either christening?
[Fri 20 Jun 12:06 BST] Steve
oh dearie me -you're back on the 'real men' thing again -tell us, does this mean that deep, deep, deep, deep, deep, deep, deep down you're just the teensy tinsy tiny bit miffed that you weren't born a 'real' woman instead of a right queen? I ask because you do keep coming back to this subject over and over again, and well, frankly it worries me. It might help if you were to write some clear definitions to explain to us exactly what it is you mean by 'real men' and 'queens' so we can know once and all what it is you're on about.

Didn't someone state: 'there is No Great Dark Man'

[Mon 23 Jun 09:00 BST] groc
It's my blog and I'll cry if I want to... :)

There may be a grain of truth in what you say! (All of it.)

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